“Love Her Like Yourself” – Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Urges Men to Lead with Compassion, Not Control
In a moving sermon that resonated deeply with couples, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome urged men to love their wives with the same devotion and tenderness they show toward themselves. Speaking before a congregation filled with families, he reminded husbands that true leadership in marriage isn’t measured by authority, but by empathy, service, and emotional intelligence. “A man who truly loves his wife,” he said, “nurtures her heart, protects her peace, and listens to her soul.” His message, rooted in biblical wisdom, emphasized that selflessness and respect are the twin pillars of a thriving Christian home.
The congregation’s response was overwhelmingly positive, with many describing the sermon as both healing and convicting. Pastor Chris’s words struck a chord in an era where fast-paced living often strains emotional connection within marriages. He encouraged men to be more intentional in meeting their wives’ emotional, physical, and spiritual needs, underscoring that when love and understanding flow freely, families flourish. The message forms part of his broader series on Family, Faith, and Responsibility, aimed at helping couples rediscover the divine beauty of partnership—where love isn’t commanded, but cultivated daily through kindness and care.
