The Power of a Wife’s Prayer: Devotion, Vigilance, and God’s Guidance in Marriage

When I was newly married and still navigating the complexities of understanding my husband, I eagerly joined a women’s Bible study entitled, “How to be a Godly Wife.” Feeling that I needed significant guidance in this area, I found myself absorbing a wealth of information from a group of extraordinary women. Among the many lessons, one story about praying for our husbands particularly stood out.

A kind woman shared how she made it a daily ritual to kneel by the backdoor and pray every morning as her husband left for work. One day, however, her husband forgot his wallet and rushed back, swinging the door open with such force that it slammed into her head, causing a concussion. Ouch! Talk about a powerful prayer!

The moral she humorously conveyed was that our prayers are indeed powerful, but we should also be mindful of our surroundings. Her story wasn’t just a cautionary tale but a profound testament to her unwavering dedication to her husband and, more importantly, to her God.

Dedication and Devotion

This woman’s story of persistent prayer highlights a significant aspect of a godly marriage: unwavering dedication and devotion. Her commitment to pray for her husband daily is a beautiful reflection of her faith and her desire to support him spiritually. This level of devotion can serve as an inspiration to all wives striving to embody the principles of a godly marriage.

In Ephesians 5:22-23, we read, “Let wives be in subjection to their husbands as to the Lord, because a husband is head of his wife just as the Christ is head of the congregation.” This scripture emphasizes the importance of respect and support within the marital relationship. Praying for our husbands is one of the most profound ways we can show this support.

The Reality of Praying for Our Husbands

I must confess, I often fall short in praying diligently for my husband. Last night, as we settled into bed after a particularly challenging evening with our teenagers, I sensed his weariness. I turned to him and asked how I could pray for him. Initially, he chuckled, likely thinking I was being sarcastic given the tension from moments earlier. However, after a moment, he said, “Pray that I am being obedient to God, that I serve my family well, and that I gain just a little wisdom and discernment.” Then he added, “Because sometimes I feel like I am failing.”

His candid response struck a chord. It was a reminder that even the most steadfast individuals can feel overwhelmed and in need of divine guidance. As wives, it is our privilege and duty to lift our husbands up in prayer, seeking God’s wisdom and strength for them.

The Power of Intercessory Prayer

Intercessory prayer, praying on behalf of others, is a powerful practice. James 5:16 assures us, “A righteous man’s supplication has a powerful effect.” When we pray for our husbands, we are inviting God’s intervention in their lives, seeking His guidance, protection, and blessings.

Our prayers can be a source of great strength for our husbands, especially during times when they feel inadequate or overwhelmed. By praying for them, we help create an atmosphere of spiritual support that can bolster their faith and resolve.

A Call to Action

Let this be an encouragement to all wives: Make it a priority to pray for your husbands daily. Your prayers are a powerful tool in supporting and uplifting them. However, be mindful of your surroundings—both literally and metaphorically. Ensure that your prayers are accompanied by actions of love, understanding, and respect.

As we strive to be godly wives, let us remember the profound impact of our prayers. They are a testament to our faith and our commitment to our marriages. Through prayer, we not only support our husbands but also draw closer to God, seeking His wisdom and guidance in our journey together.

In closing, I invite you to join me in this daily practice. Let us kneel, not just physically but in our hearts, lifting our husbands up to God, asking for His blessings and guidance. As Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us, “Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus.”

Together, let us be vigilant and dedicated in our prayers, trusting in the powerful and loving God we serve.